I get it… you’ve been trying all these things to get your boyfriend back and so far he hasn’t responded. You’re at the end of your rope. You don’t know what else to do…
Relax. I got you.
Jealousy is the most powerful of all human emotions. It’s caused murders. It’s driven wars. And when it comes to grabbing your former boyfriend’s attention? Jealousy can be an invaluable tool… one you can use deviously, and with instant results.
Below is a list that’s not exactly for the faint of heart. If you’re not ready for some more radical moves that might win him back, maybe you should move on. But if you’re ready to try something new – and you’re brave enough to pull it off? Many of these techniques can put you back in the driver’s seat when it comes to making him DESIRE you again. And best of all, this will happen VERY quickly.
1. Look Wickedly Amazing
It should stand without reason that in order to get your boyfriend back, he needs to be physically and emotionally attracted to you. The physical part you can work at at the gym; no matter what shape you might be in right now, there’s always room for improvement.
Mentally, emotionally – chances are that right now at least, you aren’t in tip top shape. Getting into physical shape will boost your confidence, especially if you drop a few sizes and pick up some new clothes. This will improve your emotional state as well, as all these things tend to have cascading benefits.
When your ex sees you for the first time after the breakup, his tongue should hit the floor. If it doesn’t, you haven’t worked hard enough to make him jealous.
2. Hit Him in Places He Knows
No, not physically hit him. But you can emotionally hit him – or at least push him out of his comfort zone – by showing up in all the places he usually haunts. See, your boyfriend is expecting you to avoid him. He’s expecting that you’re so crushed, so upset, that just seeing him will make you a teary-eyed, emotional wreck.
This is where you prove him wrong. By being totally unafraid to face him, and by showing up with a big grin on your face? You’re showing your ex that NOTHING he did to you really matters. Your life is going on as normal, and if anything, he’s the one who should feel uncomfortable.
3. Smile, Nod, Laugh, Have Fun
Know what gives your ex the confidence to STAY broken up with you? Seeing you miserable. Not because he’s sadistic or anything, but seeing you miserable without him gives him the sense that HE was the important person in the relationship. That you needed him a whole lot more than he needed you.
So when he sees you laughing and smiling and having a great time WITHOUT him even in the picture? Well, this is where he starts questioning himself. He just dumped a girl who doesn’t seem to care that he’s gone, and not only that, she looks like she’s having the time of her life. This girl is FUN. This girl is LAUGHING. She also looks ten times more amazing than the last time he saw her! So what gives? Why isn’t he back with you? Maybe he should scoop you up quickly before someone else does…
Additionally, you might want to try these instant re-connection techniques the first time you run into your ex boyfriend. But read about them thoroughly before using them, because unless you execute them correctly they could possibly backfire.
4. Hang out With People Your Ex Doesn’t Like
Yeah, that’s right. Find the people your boyfriend always hated, and start going to the places he never wanted to take you to. This is a double-whammy, because it’s flaunting your happiness in the face of his misery.
It doesn’t matter if these people are men or women. All that matters is that you’re suddenly their ally, which will throw your ex boyfriend completely off his game. Remember: getting him to want you back is all about pushing him out of his comfort zone. He’d love nothing more for you to be sitting at home crying at the loss of the relationship rather than out doing things he would’ve traditionally been pissed about you doing.
5. Grab His Friends in the Divorce
Think just because your ex dumped you that you have to stop talking to, messaging with, or seeing his friends? Hell no. Because chances are, during the course of your relationship, HIS friends became YOUR friends.
Show your boyfriend you’re completely unafraid by getting all nice and cozy with the people he usually hangs out with. You don’t have to be obnoxious about it – in fact, you should be careful not to overdo it or he’ll realize why you’re doing it. However, there’s nothing keeping you from enjoying the same relationships with these people (or to make him REALLY jealous, even CLOSER relationships!) even after the two of you have broken up.
There are 3 more ultra-sneaky tricks that will make your ex jealous, but some of them are borderline criminal! Read them if you like, but use them with extreme caution…Share this: