First Moves to Make When You Still Love Your Exgirlfriend

Love... it can really kick your ass. But at the same time, will you let it? If your girlfriend broke up with you and you still want her back, don't you think there's a way to get her? A specific set of moves and circumstances that will lead straight back into her heart?

Still Love Ex Girlfriend
Know the first moves for getting her back

I still love my ex girlfriend!

On the battlefield of dating, this is a common warcry. But what happens next? Do you sink to your knees and wring your hands at the sky, or do you fight to win back your relationship?

Look around. Couples get back together each and every day. There's absolutely no reason you can't be one of them. In every case, no matter what, there is always something you can do to win back your ex girlfriend. But whether or not you seek out and find the right path to get her back? That part is entirely up to you.

Whether you got dumped yesterday, last week, or even a year ago... you're probably asking the same thing: "Okay I want my ex girlfriend back, what's my first move?"

Easy. The first thing you need to do is recognize that taking instant action doesn't always equal good results. In fact, when it comes to getting your girlfriend back? Sometimes inaction can go a lot further when it comes to making someone want and miss you.

Let's examine what happened when your ex broke up with you. Did you get upset? Beg her to reconsider? Maybe you held her hostage for a few hours while trying to get her to change her mind. Unfortunately for you, these were all bad moves. They turned your ex off immediately, because you became desperate and needy.

Not only that, but the whole time you were trying to "talk" to her, you were only talking at her. You were only listening to your half of the conversation - only considering your own needs. Nevermind that your ex girlfriend carefully thought out her decision and was trying to present it to you in a calm, mature way... you threw all that over your shoulder in an effort to change her mind.

See where I'm going with this? You just got a small insight into what your girlfriend was thinking when she broke up with you.

So what happened next? Did you call your ex every day? Send her a billion text-messages? Did you drive to her house, or school or even worse, her job, just to "talk to her"? These things probably didn't go too well. Your exgirlfriend most likely began avoiding you as much as possible, and not returning your calls. And as you felt her slipping away you probably tried to grab even tighter, making the whole situation even worse.

Then you figured "Hey... I still love my ex girlfriend... so I'll write her a note!" Since she wouldn't listen or talk to you, you thought a note was the next best thing. So you poured your heart out into a 20-page letter and tucked it beneath her wiperblade or left it on her doorstep, along with a dozen or so roses. And once again... no response. In fact, by now your ex girlfriend is starting to get a little bit afraid of you. Maybe she's not telling you this, but it's the truth.

Alright, enough of that for now. Hopefully you've gotten the picture. The real reason your exgirlfriend isn't responding to you right now is because you overloaded her at a very critical time. This was a great opportunity for you to withdraw... disappear... and completely drop out of sight for a while, which would give your girlfriend the chance to really miss you. Instead, you went in the opposite direction - throwing yourself at her feet whenever you could. This was, and is, one of the reasons you haven't been able to get your ex girlfriend back.

Now if you're still in love with your ex girlfriend and you still want her back? The good news is there's still hope. There are techniques that help will undo the damage you've done so far, as well as methods you can use to bring back your ex's old feelings and emotions toward you. Remember when she loved you soo much? Those feelings are still there. Your ex girlfriend may have shelved them for now, in an effort to move on. That being said, there are ways of drawing out those feelings and recreating the beginning of your romance, when those initial sparks were overwhelming.

Winning back your ex girlfriend is a learnable skill. All it takes is patience, perserverence, and a step-by-step blueprint for success. There are simple ways to get your ex to call you, as well as other ways to help set up your first reunion date. All of these smaller steps help you know exactly what to do next and exactly when to do it - a much, much better way of winning her over than just trying things at random and hoping that they'll work.

There are many steps necessary to get back an ex girlfriend, and you need to find out what they are. By learning to reactivate your ex's emotional bonds to you, you can reverse your breakup and build a strong new relationship together.

Ex Back System

The Ex Back System is a fully-complete, step by step blueprint to fixing your breakup from START to FINISH. Because no matter where you are along the way? Author Brian Bold picks you up, dusts you off, and shows you exactly what needs to be done.

Male or female, the goal is always the same: you want to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend to fall right back in love with you again. Here's where you need to be careful, because while the right approach will put your ex back in your arms again, the wrong approach can actually do irrepairable damage to the future of your relationship.

If you've already tried some reconciliation techniques and are struggling with what to do next, the Ex Back System is especially important. Learn to identify behaviors that will drive your ex away, as well as which ones can actually get them thinking about and attracted you again - without you doing much of anything at all.

This instantly-downloadable breakup repair guide includes just some of the following:

  • How to handle your breakup the RIGHT way, even if it's been weeks since you last saw your ex.
  • Techniques for using your social life to affect (and speed up) the reconciliation process.
  • Learn the first three phases of ANY breakup: Recession, Reconstruction, and Reconnection.
  • Find out the best ways to establish contact with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend once again.
  • Deal with special breakup situations: cheating, infidelity, or when your ex is already dating again.

In the end, The Ex Back System proves that you can't undo a stubborn breakup without one important thing: knowledge. The more informed you are? The more successful you'll be.

This 9-chapter, step-by-step system helps guide you through every twist and turn, showing you precisely what to do (and more importantly, when to do it) on the road to getting back with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Check it out here.

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